Today in the shower, I was pondering why, when it clearly states in my profile I don't do the nasty shit, and I have in my topic to please read my profile, do people still ask about it. I realize that they don't bother reading my profile, but beyond that, why ask me, instead of some other chick? Random memory of hundreds of guys quoting the geeks are freaks comment, and an epiphany arises.
If geeks are freaks, and I'm a geek, it *must* be okay to ask about bathroom stuff, beastiality, and pedophilia, right? WRONG. But, I'm not here to chew them out, I'm here to discuss why "geeks are freaks" no longer applies.
Back in the day, oral, bdsm, and technique were considered "freak" stuff. After all, for the longest time, anyone who did it any way other than missionary was technically breaking the law. But the biggest thing that set male geeks apart was their ability to make their female partner enjoy herself. That was considered a freaky thing to do. Why bother with her? She's just a piece of ass. That's where I think it came from.
Nowadays, that stuff is considered normal. So people think "geeks are freaks" and automatically think of the stuff that's not normal still- bathroom play, daddy play, incest play, beastiality. But they forget that the saying came about in days when tamer stuff was in operation.
Now, I shared this epiphany with my roommate, and he disagrees. He says that it came from back when the saying was "the prettier she is, the less she has to do in bed". He says the guys would look at pictures of girls, and if she was pretty, they'd say "lies like a mattress", and if she was ugly, they'd say "fucks like a pornstar in heat". Me, I doubt that, because the term geek used to be applied almost exclusively to men. (the the words USED TO, meaning past tense, and ALMOST, meaning that there were some exceptions).
What do you think?
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